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Quest to End Poverty in America

The Quest to End Poverty in America

Prologue

    A Jewish man had two sons, the story goes.  He loved his boys intensely and worked to raise them with the traditions and the moral values that had given him his own success.  One day the younger of the two came to his father. “Father, I know that someday I would inherit a portion of this land and of your belongings.  I would like that now.”  The father was saddened by this mindset and broken hearted that this son of his would so reject him.  Yet, with a heavy heart he gave the younger son his share of the estate.  A short time later the son sold off all of his share and left to explore the world.  Each and every day the father went to a small hilltop where he could see the road and look for his son.  Day after day he was disappointed and returned to his home to pray, fast and hope for the best for this son of his.  The elder son was dutiful and cared for the family business and tried to keep his father’s spirits up. 

    Meanwhile, the younger son was living large in the big city.  With a large purse of gold coins he was the life of the party.  At first it was difficult for him to overcome the moral teachings of his father, but eventually his heart was calloused to such old fashioned thinking.  Each night he would drink until late in the night and each morning wake up with a different woman.  Rarely if ever did he even remember his family back home.

    Day after day the father continued to go to that hilltop and look for his son.  Travelers coming through would share with the elder brother about the wild living the younger was doing in the city.  The stories were always told in whispers so that the father would not hear and be even more broken hearted.  Bitterness, and to be totally honest, a little bit of envy came over the older brother.  Each day the elder brother woke up with the sun and would work all day.  “Why should he get to have fun and have no responsibility?”  Despite the bitterness the elder brother continued to do his work and served his father faithfully.

    After a particularly long losing streak the younger brother realized that his change purse was getting lighter and lighter.  As the purse shrunk so did his list of friends.  Soon he found himself broke and alone.  With no money the young man noticed that his stomach that had been enlarged with rich foods was shrinking quickly.  But with the famine raging in the land there was little work to be found.  Local businesses chased him away from their front entrances knowing that he had no money.  The young man was desperate.

    A well worn path know showed the route the father took day after day to his hilltop look out, hoping and waiting for his son to return.

   One day as he looked through some piles of garbage hoping to find something to eat, a man took compassion on him and took him to an inn and bought him a nice meal and gave him a few coins to “help him get on his feet.”  The young man was ecstatic and ran off to gamble and multiply his good fortune.  Over the next several days his purse expanded and shrunk until he was again broke, alone and hungry.  Again wandering the street and looking for garbage behind a building that was used as a synagogue the local rabbi came along and took pity on the boy.  He too bought him a meal and gave him a few coins.  Again the excited young man took off and gambled the windfall and repeated the process.  Week after week and month after month, the now aging man would expend his life in wild living and someone would take compassion on him and he would survive.  He was always grateful and typically polite.  He had learned where to hang out in order to get the best meals and the most money when he again experienced the loss that he learned was just a normal part of life.

The father continued to wait for his son.  Some days he felt hopeful and some days he lost all hope.  However, the youngest son was never going to return home.  The son would never feel the consequences of his choice.  People with good intentions kept feeling pity for him and rescuing him.  Unlike the original story the younger son never made it to the pig sty so that he could “come to himself” and return to his father.  Ultimately the father died broken hearted.  The younger son died on a cold night before he could be rescued.  He was buried in an unmarked grave because nobody knew who he was.

  While this nation has many flaws and has failed in so many ways.  It is still a great nation.  People from around the world still want to come here and be called citizens.  The people of this nation routinely donate money to help people for a wide array of causes.  Among those causes that often are given focus is the homeless.  Great passion is expressed in churches and among the social workers that we must help these people who are living on the streets.  Businesses are hurt by people begging in front of their store fronts.  Incredible government programs are developed to get them housed and out of our sight so that we might not be burdened by the sight of these dirty, ragged masses of humanity.

Unfortunately, most of these programs only provide handouts and temporary reprieve.  These programs take on multiple names but are typically the same.  Churches particularly reach out to the homeless and advocate for them to get help.  Social workers go to lobby congress to give more money for program to help these men and women.

There is one fatal flaw with all of these good hearted intentions.  They all prevent the person in poverty from returning to the father.  They never get to feel the shame of being a Jewish man working in a pig sty.  They are given resources that enable them to continue in the lifestyles that led them into poverty in first place.  As a result the numbers of those who are in poverty continue to multiply.

Imagine a ten story building.  On the tenth floor of this building are the ultra wealthy. The second floor is filled with those that are living a stable and moral life just above the poverty line.  In between those two extremes is where most of us live.  Between floors there are stairwells that enable people to move up or down between floors.  The stairwells going up represent hard work, education and healthy relationships.  The stairwells going down are representing laziness, lack of education and choosing unhealthy relationships.  Within this building are elevators.  There are some with special skills (think athletes and artists) who use those skills to quickly rise to the top.  Most do not get to use the elevators but they are there.

    On the ground floor is where those that are living in poverty live.  Because it is the ground floor there is much instability there.  People come and go and crime is common.  Nobody really enjoys the ground floor and most dream of winning the lottery and getting to live on the top floor.  Alas, there is no elevator or even a stairwell from the ground floor even to the 2nd floor.  There is only a rickety ladder.  Many are paralyzed by fear of climbing the ladder.  Often people in society shake the ladder if they even try to climb until they fall back to the ground. (Think Jim Crow and similar laws).  Even others living in poverty shake the ladder if they attempt to climb.  They are like lobsters who when caught and put in a bucket must be secured with a lid if there are only one but have no need of a lid if there are two.  The lobsters pull each other down if they try to escape.

The last group that keeps them on the ground floor are the incentive stealers.  Those on the ground know about the stability of the ground floor and if they get hungry enough or feel unsafe enough will make new choices so that they can climb.  While the others who are knocking them off of the ladder are mean and cruel, these are loving and compassionate.  But the result is the exact same.

In this series we will explore what can be done to greatly reduce and even end poverty in this great nation.  We will look at how our society often keeps people in poverty and consider what we should do to actually help these men and women climb the ladder out of poverty.

There will be disagreement and that is good.  We need to have discussion without calling each other names or demonstrating hate.  We just simply see things differently.  Let us work together to make a difference.  Let us work together to complete this quest of ending poverty in America.

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Living the Warrior Life D-Day + 78

Welcome back!  If you started on June 6 when we kicked this off, you are now on D-Day plus 78.      This will complete our journey together serving you as you strive to live the Warrior Life.   I welcome your feedback and encourage you to contact me and let me coach you toward greater success.

Part 1: Be the Leader:  

Discipline:   

Definition:    

Destiny:   

Part 2: BE THE WARRIOR

 The warrior takes the small things seriously

 The warrior must be a student of history. 

 The warrior must live by a code.

Part 3 Be the Storm

Risk:

Take Action:

Resolve to never give up:

Every run, every project gets to a moment where you feel like throwing in the towel.  The warrior does not quit at that point.  My experience is that if in that moment, you push through, and you will start to feel different.  In that moment you will cross some line and what once seemed dark will suddenly come alive and you will win.  But only if you don’t give up.

You, my friend, are called to change the world.  You may not be destined to change the whole world but maybe your piece of it.  The real problem is that the world does not want to change.  They know the pain and fear that your might introduce them to a pain that they don’t know.  Men and women work diligently to avoid change in their lives.  The good news is that if they can feel the pain, and keep from medicating it, they might hear you.

As you propose the change initially they will call you insane.  They will break out all science and human wisdom they can find to discourage you.  Some will do this out of spite.  Ignore them.

Others will do this out of love.  They will fear for your pain or more often they fear that they will be required to do and be more if you bring the change.  These love you.  Be gentle with them but resolve to continue on the journey.  Explain your reasons.  Share the journey.  Invite them to come along.   When possible fill them in on the details.

Even Jesus had family and friends that thought that he had lost his mind.  His teachings are difficult.  Yet many try to teach these things as if they are simple.  I believe they are doing a great disservice to the Kingdom of God.  I cannot explain everything.  Most of the time, this God that I love, makes no sense to me.  Yet I have resolved to follow Him to the ends of the Earth if needed.  I choose to live for Him and if called up on to die for Him.  I have resolved to never give up.

You, warriors, what will you die for?  You might say family or friends.  Make your God given purpose a mountain where you can take your stand.  Discipline yourself to know your purpose intimately.  Envision it.  Breathe it in.  Study yourself and anything connected with your purpose.  Look for answers to your problems in unusual places.  Just do not give up!  Do not give in!  Just keep plodding toward your dreams.  Live for your purpose.

 This week’s challenge:    Don’t give up!

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Living the Warrior Life

Living the Warrior Life D-Day +71

Welcome back!  If you started on June 6 when we kicked this off, you are now on D-Day plus 71.      

Part 1: Be the Leader:  

Discipline:   

Definition:    

Destiny:   

Part 2: BE THE WARRIOR

 The warrior takes the small things seriously

 The warrior must be a student of history. 

 The warrior must live by a code.

Part 3 Be the Storm

Risk:

Take Action:  Storms test the integrity of structures.  Things that are fake or are barely holding on will not survive the storm.  I remember as a child living through a tornado that ripped through our neighborhood.  My neighbor across the street was hiding out in his basement with his family when the storm hit and when the storm was over he bragged to his wife how the house had survived the storm.  She had been complaining for years that he needed to fix the porch and other maintenance tasks around the house.  He always intended to get to it but never took action.  So when the storm was over and from his view point the house was in order he felt vindicated. 

That feeling of vindication and victory only lasted about 20 minutes.  They came out of the basement and everything was dark.  Initially, they believed that it was just because the power was out.  My neighbor found a flashlight and tried to open the front door but it would not open.  This happened sometimes, he had been meaning to fix it.  Unable to open the door he made his way out of back door and walked around the house.  That is when he discovered the overhang from their front porch was laying across the porch and keeping the door closed.  In the morning other damage was revealed.  While the house survived, much of the structure was shown to be weak. 

That can happen in our own lives.  We can get by day to day and survive but can your life survive storms?  In order to build that structure you must take action.

Teddy Roosevelt as a child was reported to be sickly and weak.  Doctors did not expect him to do much with his life.  Teddy could have simply rolled over and lived off of his parents wealth and really have been forgotten by history.  That was not Teddy’s way!  He began to exercise.  He ignored doctor’s instructions; he overcame most of his ailments.  Those ailments that he did not overcome he pushed through anyway.  Teddy took action. 

NOTE: I am not advising you to ignore doctors.  But do follow up and see if there are other opinions or treatments if needed.

Too many of us get bad news, we simply call it quits.  That will keep you from having any impact on the world.

When I was a baby my very young parents were told not to expect too much out of me because of complications at birth.  The doctor was very sincere so my parents believed him.  As I grew up I was sat in front of the TV and not much was expected.  That was my life until I was 5 years old.  That is when I met Sister Mary Gabriel.  She told my parents that was stupid and that I was just lazy.  She took action.  At least once her action included a paddle.  She pushed me and made me cry on multiple occasions.  But she demanded that I take action.  She would not accept my excuses.  Ultimately I not only completed first grade, but was fairly successful in school. 

 This week’s challenge:   What is holding you back?  What can you do to overcome those obstacles?    

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Living the Warrior Life D+64

Welcome back!  If you started on June 6 when we kicked this off, you are now on D-Day plus 64.      

Part 1: Be the Leader:  

Discipline:   

Definition:    

Destiny:   

Part 2: BE THE Warrior

 The warrior takes the small things seriously

 The warrior must be a student of history. 

 The warrior must live by a code.

Part 3 Be the Storm

Today we begin the final section of this series.  By now you are developing as a leader and as a warrior.  Those are important for your daily life and purposes.  If you do well with the first two sections you will be successful but it is unlikely that you will be remembered by anyone 2-3 generations after you meet your demise.   In order to be a legend you must be the storm

Risk:

Being the storm is risky.  There is no doubt.  There will be people who will hate you and despise you.  They will talk about you and even make up lies to smear your name.  This will always be true.  Many people are like crabs.  If you go crab fishing and you catch one crab and put them in a bucket you must put a lid on the bucket.  Once you catch 2 crabs and put them together in the bucket, you no longer need to put a lid on them.  If one tries to escape the other will pull them back down.  All people have their own agenda and purpose and these crabs have as a part of their purpose to hold you back. 

Listen to them, learn from what they are saying, but don’t let it touch your emotions.  If they offer a way to accomplish your goals that reduces the risk, take that into consideration.  But do not let them make you afraid.  Steel yourself against their attacks.  Know that they are coming.

Abraham Lincoln, during his presidency, was often hated and despised.  ½ the nation left to start their own country because they suspected that he would become a liberator of slaves.  Those that stayed behind were angry at him for a multitude of reasons.  Initially, he was accused of being too slow toward abolition.  He took the risk to wait.  Later when he had the Emancipation Proclamation, many said it was too risky.  Every time he risked firing a general there were those waiting to lambaste him. Yet he continued to risk.  Read the headlines of the papers of that era.  They make the modern media look like they love President Donald Trump.  Newspapers looked to crucify the man consistently.  Yet he never failed to risk doing the next right thing. 

However, when he died he became a legend.  He belongs to the ages.  Many want to be like him, but they have forgotten the hate and ridicule he had to endure.  Lincoln suffered mightily throughout his presidency so that the nation could be united and the slaves set free.  He was the storm.  He was a world changer.

You can be a world changer too.  Consider what you might do to impact the world.

 This week’s challenge:  Think boldly.  If you had the power to change the world in one area, what area would that be?  Don’t say something like, “That is just the way it is.”  Lincoln could have said that, but took the risk.  Pick an area and consider what a first step might be. 

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Living the Warrior Life D-Day +57

Welcome back!  If you started on June 6 when we kicked this off, you are now on D-Day plus 57.      

Be the Leader: Just because we have moved on in our training does not mean that the earlier lessons are done.  A leader must be constantly growing and learning.

Discipline:   

Definition:    

Destiny:   

BE THE WARRIOR

 The warrior takes the small things seriously

 The warrior must be a student of history. 

 The warrior must live by a code.

In the heat of battle or for most of us when stress hits us hard we must have pre-decided how we will react.

Consider Joseph in the book of Genesis.  He is a hard worker.  He is wise and loyal to his master.  Unfortunately, his master’s wife took a special liking to him and worked to seduce him.  Consider the temptation.  Here is a noble woman who likely regularly bathed, wore make up and the fanciest clothes of her era.  Because of Potiphar’s position it is also likely that he had his choice of beautiful and intelligent women so she is a top tier girl. 

One day this cunning woman orchestrated some alone time with Joseph, and invited him into her marriage bed.  All of the external barriers that might have helped Joseph overcome this temptation were gone. How did Joseph not give into this temptation?  He made a vow before hand to not give himself to this woman.  When the invitation came that was not the time to debate the rightness or wrongness of the situation.  His natural senses would have led him astray.  He was a young man with testosterone running through his system at full tilt.  But he had made a vow at least internally to keep himself pure.

That same sort of pre-decision can be made for many things in your life.  You can seek ideas on the internet for wording and ideas of things that you should include in your personal vows.  But let me give you a few here in no particular order that you might consider.

  • As a warrior it is my duty to always lead from the front and not the rear.
  • I will treat all people with respect and love because they are made in the image of God.
  • I will set myself as an example that others will want to follow. (Holistically)
  • I will push those that work with me toward constant and never-ending improvement (CANI)
  • Pain is required to release the beast within you.
  • I do not need to like what God directs you to do, you must simply do it.
  • I shall live my life with simplicity.
  • I shall never assume that I fully understand a situation until I investigate fully.
  • I will focus on results, not methods.
  • Semper Gumby (Always flexible)
  • Never be alone with a woman in what would appear a compromising position.
  • Honor God, first.

 This week’s challenge: Consider where temptation must come from and write out a personal code that you will live with and apply in your life.  Write them out and then work to integrate them into your life.